Genesis 21:22-34
"Abraham's Covenant with Abimelech"
Abimelech came to Abraham acknowledging God. He acknowledged God's power as displayed through Abraham's life. I think, though, that Abimelech was becoming fearful of Abraham, then because of the request he had. Abimelech asked Abraham to swear to not break agreements with Abimelech or his descendants.
Wisely, Abraham did not let that request be the only tie. Abraham made a counter-request, asking a favor of Abimelech. The two of them then settled the agreement and made a formal covenant with a witness.
Right here, we see an example for relationships whether they be family, romantic, work, or other relationships. Relationships are not meant to be all give-take, but rather give/take-give/take. Abraham turned a one-sided request into a mutual agreement. They ended up facing each other as equals, not one higher than the other due to owed obligations. In the same manner, keep your debts and obligations balanced, not one-sided.
We can even apply this to our relationship with God. We should not have a relationship of asking and asking God for stuff, but one of serving Him in response to that with which He has already blessed us: life, salvation, our possessions, etc.
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